| Posted: 27 March 2007 at 1:08pm | IP Logged
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Hiya,
I don't know if there is a definite 'link' as such, but I know most people (SPD sufferers anyway) I've spoken to have suffered from some from of depression. I think it's more through the actual effects of the condition though ie: the limitations that you suddenly find thrown on you (especially when everyone around you seems to 'bloom'), the pain, the guilt of not being the person/wife/partener/mum that you used to be/want to be etc.. The only thing I was warned about was trying to bf my little one (other than "god help this baby with the meds you're taking) as they said that the longer I tried, the longer it would take the hormones to settle and for me to get better.. I must admit, when I did try, I found the pain to increase ten fold, but then that may well have been down to lying in the one position for too long...
One of the most alarming things that I had heard though, was from a physio who had suffered it herself and tried to do some of her own research (it was unfunded, so she didn't get very far). She realised that most of the women she came accross with the condition were 'older' ie: in the late 20's/early 30's age group and therefore had been on the pill for a few years (?) she also asked if I was 'hypermobile' and to be honest, I didn't have a clue what she was talking about and she then did a very simple test: hold your had out straight, and with the other gently pull your fingers up the way to see how far they go back - mine go back to a 'natural' 90 degree angle (which is perfectly normal for me) but apparently that shows that I am 'hypermobile' and therefore have a shortage of collagen in my system - that apparently can also have an effect on whether or not you will get SPD..
There are obviously a lot of factors at play and there must be some common denominator for so many people to be affected by this.. I know that with increased awareness etc you will always have an increase in diagnosis numbers, but come on... how may people did any of us see walking around pregnant in such pain? or struggling as we are after the birth..? As far as the midwives are concerned, I'm sorry, but I've yet to meet one who truly understands this condition, the effects of it or the causes.. or even truly gives a damn!!! (I even had one, a couple of days before my elective c-section say to me "well, if you think about it - if your pelvis has separated that bad, then technically it would be easier for you to give birth naturally as you'll have a wider gap" - I won't tell you what my response to that was!.. but these are the people who are supposed to be supporting us) In fact, whilst I was in hospital I ended up telling most of them about the condition etc from the info that I got off the internet.. Why aren't they being taught properly? by the doctors etc? (probably because they don't know either, and don;t want to take the initiative to find out) - I'm very cynical I know, but can you blame me??
God, I'm sorry I've gone off on one again, what am I like??
I'm sure if we pull together, we might be able to get something done...
Good luck and well done hun - we all need it!!
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