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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 2:41pm | IP Logged Quote MUM2MAXTOM
I'm not sure how to write this post, my mind is a muddle.   I'm sure you will appreciate the sensitivity of the subject matter.

 A very good friend of the family was diagnosed with HIV on Sunday.  Today he was taken into intensive care.

My sister adores him and was looking after him.  Obviously she is devastated as is the whole family.

I've cried buckets of tears and the 'whys' play around in my head, but that doesn't make the tragedy better.

I don't expect anyone to say anything, it was just for me to offload.  Kev's here with me, being my emotional punchbag so I'll be okay.  It's my little sister I'm worried about.

My friend looks like a frail old man.  He weighs 8.5 stone and has lost the will to live.

He's in his 40s, never married, never had children.  Hasn't got a partner.

Life is so unpredictable, isn't it, and so bloody awful.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 2:55pm | IP Logged Quote steph

Its the way the cookie crumbles chick..life isnt fair and thats the way it is.  Sounds harsh I know, but thats the way I look at it.

Hope Lou is doing ok give her a hug from me chica.

All you can do is be there as and when, and im here whenever you need me
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 3:09pm | IP Logged Quote LittleP1984

Aww thats sad

Cant imagine the shock to u & ur family

Hope he is being kept as comfortable as possible
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 4:13pm | IP Logged Quote Lynie
That's an absolute nightmare.  I hope, like LittleP says he's kept as comfortable as possible.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 4:23pm | IP Logged Quote MUM2MAXTOM
Thank you for your kind words.

Well, I've just phoned mum to see if Lou is at the hospital yet.  Apparently she's been there ages, but as the friend's parents turned up first and only two visitors at a time she has to wait.

Poor Lou, she went up as soon as she could because her friend asked for her.

My mum is looking after Cal, but apparently he's wanting his mummy now.  Oh, just heard that Cal's daddy his home so all is well there.

Until I hear more that's about it really.
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 8:55pm | IP Logged Quote bensmum
Thats terrible news Zo! So sorry for your friend and your sis! Life never is fair hunny. Hope he's doing ok in hosp now and is comfortable. I suppose he's in the best place. Thinking of ya!
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 9:03pm | IP Logged Quote RIN1983

What a tragic thing.

Life is so cruel sometimes.

I hope he isnt sufferning too much

Sending hugs to all x
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 9:22pm | IP Logged Quote becky84

im really sorry to hear this terrible news

hope your friends family and your's can help each other through this time .

all my thoughts are with you .
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Posted: 09 August 2007 at 11:25pm | IP Logged Quote feemcg
I too am really sorry to hear this hun

Sending lots of love to you and your sis

Life throws cruel blows sometimes
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Posted: 10 August 2007 at 10:01am | IP Logged Quote Madzwalker
I'm so sorry Zoe.

Thinking of you, your family, your sister and your friend at this very sad time.

Sending you lots of love, you know where I am if you want to talk.

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