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Posted: 25 August 2007 at 10:12am | IP Logged

One of these days im going to launch at my family!

First off...my mum..phoned me floods of tears earlier on in the week..and announced that my sister didnt want her at her wedding, she wasnt involved in the planning, she was useless, unloved blah di blah.  I asked her how much shed had to drink, she said she hadnt had anything, however i couldnt understand a word she was saying as she was really really slurring her words.  She took offence and said i was calling her an alcoholic..i said its not me saying it mother.  She carried on saying that she hadnt done the right thing by us, and its her fault i got poorly blah di blah..so told her to go to bed and id speak to her tomorrow. 

Then phoned my sister to find out what was going on..to find out that all tracey had said was she didnt want anyone in the room with her when she puts her wedding dress on..which is fair enough.  Mum is also kicking off that tracey hasnt invited any of the family yet has invited all my dads side.  Tracey and I cut the family off in december last year, yet mum says we should forgive and forget..however neither of us will!

Sooooo that was that one.  Joe went out last night, so I phoned my cousin to have a chinwag and to find out how my god daughter was.  Found out that my nan has decided that when i die (yeah thanks you old bat) that natasja will go to ben, that joe cant keep her, and thats whats right for tasja.  To say I was livid is an understatement.  Shes still determined that im going to die sometime in the very near future..and shes planned whats going to happen..does my head in.

My cousin stuck up for me, and said that tasja wont be going anywhere cos i aint going anywhere..and that if it does come down to it..tasja will stay with joe and isla (more than one way of skinning a cat).

So thats it so far, families eh...do your nut in on the best of days.  Im so glad i cut them off...cos if I hadnt..i think id be locked up for breach of the peace.  I dont think id be able to keep my mush shut if i met up with them all...

Posted: 25 August 2007 at 1:16pm | IP Logged

Holy Moley Steffers!! 

First of all, there's reasons why you cut family etc off, if they go about planning your life after your gone, which isn't going to happen any time soon!!!!

God, I have no idea of what to say my brains muffled...

Mam probably felt better in the morning, ummm, a bit embarrassed maybe?  Who knows...

I hope you're alright!  Just hold your head high as you've always done I guess.  Your a stong laaayyyyydeee! 

Families eh?  Can't chose em....

Hugs from your boa buddy!!, xxxxxx

Posted: 25 August 2007 at 2:55pm | IP Logged

oh wow guess your pretty peeved then?(lol) cant believe they have the nerve to say such horrid and stopid things i mean come on talk about planning a death.

hope your feeling a bit better now and have not been locked up yet.

I totally agree tho families you cant choose them and how i wish you could somedays.

take care x

Posted: 25 August 2007 at 5:30pm | IP Logged

omg,thats awful of your nan to be saying stuff like that,id be livid too!

if it aint yr neighbours its yr family,you dont have much luck with ppl do you girl!

xx

Posted: 25 August 2007 at 5:35pm | IP Logged

My god Steph - as if you don't have enough on your plate! Thank goodness you're such a strong, upbeat person.

It is a shame we can't choose our rellies - most of mine are fab, but I have a close relative that I would gladly swop!

Keep smiling

xxx