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Posted: 28 August 2007 at 4:32pm \| IP Logged

Hi i just had mc and had trouble with first pg, real nervous about trying again, got mixed feeling,

so anyone got any hopeful advise to pep me up a bit ben trying for 8 months now

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Posted: 28 August 2007 at 4:40pm \| IP Logged

I had a missed miscarriage in 2002, I was then treated for a molar pregnancy. I conceived Joshua around the same time (dates and times very complicated) and although I didnt find out till late, and it was a medically complex pregnancy, he was born fine and healthy at full term.

Try to stay positive. maybe take a break from ttc and just enjoy your time together. Try again in a few months, you never now when your body is relaxed then things might just happen naturally anyway.

I hope you get a BFP soon babe, it is possible after a miscarriage to go on to have a healthy pregnancy xxxxx

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Posted: 28 August 2007 at 4:51pm \| IP Logged

hiya Jess, I don't have any advice really as i have never went tru the heart break of a mc.

I think they recommend at least 1 cycle before you ttc again but I am not sure.

I am thinking of you and wishing you loads of luck.

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Posted: 28 August 2007 at 5:00pm \| IP Logged

thanks i think i will have a few months break and enjoy my bd for a while.

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Posted: 28 August 2007 at 6:06pm \| IP Logged

Hi, sorry for your loss, I know how heartbreaking mc can be. My advice is take your time if you are young enough to have time on your side, I am not. Try again only when you feel ready. Don't go into your next pregnancy expecting to mc. If you can wait for at least 3 clear cycles after the mc before trying, this allows your system to get back to normal and also for you to heal emotionally a little. Don't blame yourself nothing you did made it happen or could have stopped it from happening. You could start charting your cycle if you wanted to which will tell you how long your cycles are and when the most fertile time for you is in your cycle. Most of all relax try and do other things to occupy your mind especially in the 2ww after ovulation when you start trying again. Good luck.

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