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Posted: 18 September 2007 at 3:34pm | IP Logged

Oh god, we have just been through this. My Bex was 15 when she got herself involved with a 21 year old !! Was absolutely fuming at her. We tried and pleaded with her to stop seeing him but to no avail. Eventually it run it's course and that was the end of them, thank god.

She promised that they hadn't had sex, but we only have her word for that.

I don't know what to suggest really but maybe have a word with the boys parents and see if they can help given your daughters age.

Posted: 18 September 2007 at 9:04pm | IP Logged

awwww mate.  Nothing you can do but let it run its course...look at it this way im guessing hes at the same school..gcse's will be coming up again soon..and then college etc. 

Be completely understanding..wont be as much fun if that makes sense if shes not getting to you both about it.  Have him round for tea etc..but no going upstairs!

I remember doing the same thing lol..i was 14 he was 16..we were together for a fair amount of years..but not allowed to do anything 'officially' until i was 16..zoe keep your mush shut lol

Posted: 18 September 2007 at 9:42pm | IP Logged

Well there have been tears in our house tonight - Becca's boyfriend has decided to call it all off due to the age difference. Phew! I wish I'd posted about this sooner lol!

I'm so relieved - I had planned to have him round to tea, and also to have a wee word with his parents too - but it's all been taken out of my hands now. Thanks very much for all your helpful advice - much appreciated.

I can sleep again......for now anyway!hehe!

xxx

Posted: 18 September 2007 at 9:45pm | IP Logged

wait till she brings the next one home,and 18yr old!!!

joke!! ha

sleep tight!! xx