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hi
i'm mum to katie now 6 months old and still suffering with the spd. i had a rough time in the pregnancy, but got through it by using all support networks and staying strong.
i was on codeine, i then had to move to tramadol, stepped up to oral morphine and at one point had to be given entonox to get off my sofa by the paramedics as my pelvis became so unstable. as time went by i experienced a variety of attitudes but stay strong and remember...you need the help that you can get to ensure that your lo has got a mum that has not turned into a fruit loop becuase the pain got too much.
i was given crutches, but ended up in a wheel chair for long distances. i could do nothing. i had occupational therapy come and give me equipment so i could eventually return home after a 2 week hospital stay. i had grab rails to help turn in the bed ( a god send), a aperch stool for doing work in kitchen etc, sad to say an old git toilet seat, but it did the job, and a step and a bech for the bath/shower.
rest,rest,rest though.
katie is a demanding baby and sadly i still struggle to take her weight for long periods of time. she has to be held alot, i can still end up crying at night as i have her lay on me and all i want to do is not hold her. i am better than i was, but my immediate recovery was not miraculous, but we're all different.
i am now so weak round the middle that if i bend forward i can be in pain as i have no tummy or back muscles. if i go swimming i flare up big time and so can't strenghten that area. i have been sat for too long now( a luxury normally) and i am starting to hurt, i need to go lie down just to take the pressure off my pelvis. be prepared forperiods to be hard, as it's the hormones that come with the cycle that initiate it again.
be sure, hun, that your baby will be fine. katie had all sorts of drugs as you know, even fentanyl at one point and a course of amytriptilline, and she's racing ahead and thriving.
sending gentle hugs
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