Joined: 11 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 8504 Gender: Female
Posted: 03 December 2007 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
As Sam has said it is a very lonely grief you are going through. All you can do is take it one day at a time. However it is great that you have got a very supportive family and friends. There is nothing I can say or do that will help you through this, but I know the grief you are feeling, the why's nd whats will probably be something taht you never understand, and to be honest I have never understood mine. hugs & kisses xxxx
Joined: 30 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 6624 Gender: Female
Posted: 03 December 2007 at 3:29pm | IP Logged
I had a missed miscarriage in 2002 and I can relate to just how you are feeling. Like you I had very little bleeding after my evacuation, infact I dont remember having any at all. Justwanted to say Im so sorry this has happened, we're here if you need someone to listen. It is a lonely grief, and so many dont know exactly how it makes you feel, but there are too many of us on here who do know and are here for you. Hugs babe xxxx
Joined: 18 October 2007 United Kingdom Posts: 90 Gender: Female
Posted: 03 December 2007 at 10:59pm | IP Logged
Hello again.
I can't thank you all enough for your kind words of support - it's
exactly what I need right now. so many of you know exactly how I
feel and although it's sad it's happened to you too, it is almost a
comfort to know I'm not alone - I might be calling on you all a bit
more in the future.
I went out with my hubby today for lunch and feel a bit more in touch
with civilization and a little more human again. I'm going to take
most of this week off and take it easy. I have a fab boss who has
made it clear that he does not want me to feel I need to rush back. I
also think he's worried how I will handle the birth of my colleagues'
baby boy last Fri- the same day as I went into hospital.
Joined: 24 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 2521 Gender: Female
Posted: 04 December 2007 at 7:08am | IP Logged
Jo hunny,
I echo the words from all the other members, all I can do is offer my support to you at this sad time. I suffered a miscarriage about 6 months before I fell pregnant with Lewis and I cant describe how I felt. Lets just say Im in the know and I, as well as the rest of the members, am here for you when ever you need me xxxx Take care darlin, my thoughts are with you and your family xxxx
Joined: 02 August 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 1069 Gender: Female
Posted: 04 December 2007 at 9:41am | IP Logged
Hi Jo.
I am sooo sorry, i can't believe i missed this post.
I have no words of wisdom for you but i just wanted to let you know
that i am thinking of you.
I can't begin to imagine what you are going through.
That's great you have such great friends and family and an
understanding boss and don't rush back to work, give yourself plenty
of time to grieve and get yourself back to some kind of normality.
The last thing you want to do is go back to work too soon and set
yourself back
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Topic: Missed Miscarriage
