Joined: 21 January 2008 United Kingdom Posts: 3 Gender: Female
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 1:09pm | IP Logged
hi my name is sam amd i'm 26. i am mum to kira, lucy and thomas. i found out that i was 8 weeks pregnant a week before xmas 2 days after being told that i had bad ovaries and would need ivf to be able to ttc.being pregant was fantastic ,only to be told xmas eve that it was ectopic. my world fell apart i had to go and have methotrexate which made me mc at 10 weeks. it has been an awful 3 -4 weks , i just want to get back to normal i am so scared in case this happens to me again . i feel so down and on my own ,can not talk to family about it cause they do not understand .do i have to go through this alone or is there any one that i can talk to
Joined: 13 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 8148 Gender: Female
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 1:15pm | IP Logged
Sammie I am so sorry for what you have been through.
Madmums offers a one to one buddy system if you want to talk to someone in confidence about your miscarriage. All our buddies have been through it and will understand what you are feeling. Just click the link at the bottom of my post, or in the Community menu.
Welcome to madmums, I hope we can help you. I'm maddy by the way, i'm 23 and mum to 2 year old Edward.
Joined: 11 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 5650 Gender: Female
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 7:24pm | IP Logged
Hello Sammie, I am very sorry you have lost your baby and had to go through this traumatic experience. Everything inside your heart much of screamed out about having to take the methotrexate whilst your head knew it was the only thing you could do. How are you feeling physically now are you healing ok? Emotionally it must be a rollercoaster and trying to hold it together for your other children. Have you had any thoughts to what you are going to do for the future?
Joined: 18 October 2007 United Kingdom Posts: 84 Gender: Female
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 8:17pm | IP Logged
Sam I'm so sorry, not only for you loss , but for everything else you
have had to deal with at the same time. Life throws us curve balls some
times- it just seems you have had a few all at once. I hope you are
feeling physically better, as for emotionally, it can take a while -
everyone is different - take the time you need to grieve. Please feel
free to come on here whenever you feel the need to talk, express your
feelings, ask questions or just to rant and scream. There is always a
kind and understanding ear or shoulder waiting to help - the ladies on
here are fab. I'm Jo, by the way - 34 with 3 kids and 2 MC's under my
belt. Take care and I hope you are feeling brighter soon.
Joined: 21 January 2008 United Kingdom Posts: 3 Gender: Female
Posted: 21 January 2008 at 8:33pm | IP Logged
thankyou all for your kind words and support. it does make a big difference talking to other people about it.my dh is finding it hard as it was his first baby.but i am not going to let it put me off. i got the all clear from hospital today got to wait another month before ttc so fingers crossed xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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