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Posted: 11 February 2008 at 4:46pm | IP Logged

Awww hun i didn't realise she'd come back! i though you'd still not heard a word from her..... sounds harsh but could the police not do anything to help? Assulting you again is just wrong in the first place.

You do need to feel safe hun and so do the rest of your family (it's a hard situation for anyone and we can only brainstorm ideas for you), we won't hold it your decision against you hun and in all honesty i'd pack her bags for her so you know she won't have to come back for anything. But please believe us hun when we say It's not your fault!! you are a good loving and caring mum and have offered the olive branch out on many occasions.

All we're trying to say is in 2,5,10yrs if she decides to change etc and shows she is trying though councelling etc don't just shut the door then. I think she needs to wake up and grow up before she should expect you to be there for her.

Hugs hun x Hope you are ok..... i'm worried about you and i can't say politly how she makes me feel at the moment..... i just don't want her hurting you.

Posted: 11 February 2008 at 4:56pm | IP Logged

I'm ok I think. Just so disappointed in her. All I did was point out what potential she is wasting and off she went in one of her strops. Least my wee ones were out in the garden.

I'm sick of crying, I'm sick of feeling scared and not being able to relax.

My parting words to her will be "please get some help before you really hurt someone"

Posted: 11 February 2008 at 5:00pm | IP Logged

for what its worth i think youv made the right decision chick but dont close the door permenantly,make sure she knows she will be welcome if she can sort herself out and youl always love her,that doesnt mean you have to like her v much at the moment tho. you have to put yourself and your lo's 1st,shes old enough to understand her actions are wrong.

take care,chin up xxx