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Posted: 19 March 2008 at 10:09pm | IP Logged

Hi all - well didnt know which section to post this in and this is the closest so hope you don't mind!

Well soem of you may rem a while back me posting up about how much i want another baby? Well its got to the stage where im eating, sleeping and breathing baby thoughts its consuming my whole life! Marks not ready jsut yet for another and I am so trying not to keep mentioning it as i don't want to feel I'm forcing it ya know! we have had lots of chats and as hes so busy with uni etc he wants to wait - BUT its driving me mad I really really would love to try for another and i know if we leave it too long when we finally do try i will become obsessed each month my period is due to arrive etc and Im scared the more i think of it eachmonth the more it wont happen! I feel quite guilty really as I know some of you are really trying hard for a baby and are having problems - where as I've got a beautiful healthy little girl already - But this feeling is truly eating me up - what makes it worst is everyone seems to be pregnant at the moment and i cant bear to talk about it or anything. I had no idea it could take over my life like this....

thanx ladies :)

Posted: 19 March 2008 at 10:54pm | IP Logged

Ive been trying the i want a puppy thing...and joe still hasnt taken the hint...still he goes away again in a few weeks lol...so you never know what cute fluffy bundles hell come home to lol...unfortunately my mum is refusing to puppysit in any way shape or form which is just mean in my book!

It can take over your life chica.  Just try not to let it, there is more to you than babies, i know that sounds really horrible, but couldnt think of another way to write it. 

Posted: 19 March 2008 at 11:07pm | IP Logged

LOL steph you have such a way with words!! ha :) i know ive jsut finished training for a new job so am due to start next month!

Sam i was 26 last month and mark will be 29 in aug so a late starter as far as uni goes! it prob made us sound as if we were 20 lol I know I'm not that old I just feel as though the years are passing me by! I am trying very hard to consume my thoughts with something else - its just all these pregnant cousins of mine! I guess I just have this massive feeling inside me that wants another baby and its not a phase - well if it is its been going on for nearly a year! lol Im goign to get on at mark to set a month we can start "trying" lol I think I just needed to vent how I was feeling! Thanx girls! :)

Posted: 21 March 2008 at 10:13pm | IP Logged

LOL Sam thats reassuring!!! haha I will just plod along until I get to the point of desperation and he has no choice...lol :D