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Posted: 10 April 2008 at 3:32pm | IP Logged Quote 19731hazy

Why where they invented ? They must be the most useless bunch of pen pushers EVER !!

I've had my case ongoing since Bex was 3 months old and never had a single penny. Had 4 cases taken to court and then thrown out because the DNA wasn't done. I went for my appointments but he never went for any of his.

Got a call from them today asking if they can write of the old case and re-open a new one as they have some new info on him. I said that they may as well write it off as I have given up all hope of ever seeing any of the money. Apparently I am owed over £8000 from him and the State is owed £1300.

I hope that they can do something this time, even if it is him just fessing up that he is her Dad as he full well knows anyway !!

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Posted: 10 April 2008 at 4:30pm | IP Logged Quote bensmum

What a nightmare!! Poor you, and Bex! Hope it all gets sorted out finally for you both!
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Posted: 10 April 2008 at 4:41pm | IP Logged Quote 19731hazy

OMG !!!!

Had another call from them and they are now saying that they can't write off the debt as they have no jurisdiction (sp) over where he is living !!  So here we go on the same old roundabout again.

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Posted: 10 April 2008 at 4:42pm | IP Logged Quote mum of 4!

I hope that justice will be served soon for you and Bex.
It sounds like they've been completely wasting your time in my opinion, but im sure its the principal thats keeping you fighting on, even though 8 grand is nothing to be sniffed at after such a long time coming!
I wouldn't give up with it all though, keep on fighting and i hope things can get sorted and finally brought to an end.
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Posted: 10 April 2008 at 6:03pm | IP Logged Quote mum2joshua

Ive already given up onthe CSA. I applied to them because I had to when I was on maternity leave to qualify for the full amount of benefit! Ive never had a penny, never expect a penny, and to be honest dont want a penny. Ive done the hard part!

Good luck with your case, but in all honest if they haven't got it off him now, then I doubt they ever will!

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Posted: 10 April 2008 at 7:22pm | IP Logged Quote jecko

Ive never had any involvement with the csa (thank-god) i do have a few friends who have and they haven't got very far with them at all, good luck with your case keep going if you can Hun i know i would fight untill i had whats rightfully mine and my child's, i just wish some dad's wouldn't be so stubborn there willing to go halves in making the baby they should be more of a bloody man own up to there responsibilities and pay there way xx Jue xx 
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Posted: 11 April 2008 at 4:08pm | IP Logged Quote MummyMadness

Those people and their red tape are worthless it often seems the do more to protect the father and his money than the woman and her child. Eh. 
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Posted: 11 April 2008 at 4:13pm | IP Logged Quote 19731hazy

It really isn't about the money. Even if I did get some, I would use it for loo roll. What I really want is an acknowledgement that Bex IS his daughter and then a whopping big apology for maaking me out to be some kind of sl***er and missing out on her life.
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