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Posted: 22 April 2008 at 5:49pm | IP Logged

Hi all sorry i couldnt update title on my other post so made a new one well af is happily and painfully  singing so definately not pg not that im surprised im really starting to think ill never see a positive test !

Also another piece of news is WE ARE OFFICIALLY GIVING UP i decided i wanted to stop trying as i cant deal with the heartache every month and dh is happy to stick by me . It will be a few months before we will think of trying again but i dont know when right now x thanks for all your support over the last yr but after 2 yrs i cant do it any more xx

Posted: 22 April 2008 at 6:14pm | IP Logged

Becky hun.... i don't see what you doing as giving up but taking a break and a holiday. It must be very draining emotionally and physically to be trying for over 2 years. Take time out hun and just having fun doing bedroom exercises with out the pressure of positions etc....

Hugs hun i can only echo madz.... if you wanna cuppa you know where we are x

Posted: 22 April 2008 at 6:16pm | IP Logged

I'm really sorry too Becky hun, its obviously not the news we was all wishing and hoping to hear from you.
I cant imagine how much heartache you've been through over these last few years, but you know we will always be here and try to help as best we can.
Take care
x-x-x

Posted: 22 April 2008 at 6:23pm | IP Logged

Becky, I am so sorry that the witch turned up again. It's not fair at all. I can't imagine the pain and heartache you both must have been through in the last couple of years.

We are always here for you and will be sending you lots and lots of cyber hugs.

Posted: 22 April 2008 at 6:44pm | IP Logged

Awwww i'm glad your not planning on legging it hun! Keep in touch and call me if you need an ear or a coffee!

Hugs hun. x

Posted: 22 April 2008 at 8:57pm | IP Logged

becky,i dont know what to say,i read your post the other day saying that you thought you had syptoms and was going to test in the morning,i tested the same morning and got my positive result,i was sooo hoping you would too i feel awful....i cant begin to imagine how you must feel,we were trying for a few months and it felt like a lifetime and each month id get fed up just waiting,it must be draining you physically and mentally and i can totally understand your decision to have a break for a while but dont give up and dont start thinking its never going to happen,it will happen im sure,stick at your goals and try enjoy yourself as a couple you are very lucky to have your dp he sounds v supportive but i can imagine its getting him down aswell,try getting out together and have some fun,let yr hair down. were all here for you,chin up,and dont dissapear,we'll miss you

xxxxx

Posted: 23 April 2008 at 9:56am | IP Logged

I'm so sorry to hear af turned up - so wanted it to be your month, doll. Take good care of yourself, have a wee break, and you and dh will know yourselves when you feel ready to try again. Am so sad and frustrated for you both - it must be an exhausting process to go through - but don't give up. Sending you a huge hug (wish I could give it in person) - don't be away for long - you'd be missed too much.

xxx