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martha
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Posted: 29 April 2008 at 5:08pm \| IP Logged

Like every one has said, you know when you are ready.

The one thing I found about being pregnant this time around is Rachel was going a lot of changes in her own little life which made it hard for me to deal wit her.

She is 2 and 7 months and i am due in June, so I have had to deal with terrible 2's, toilet training, weaning from a bottle, going from a cot to a bed all while being pregnant. Tbh I think it was hard on me because of being pregnant and it was also hard on Rachel because I was not as able to deal with her as well as if I was not pregnant (if you know what i mean).

I hope I have made sence.......when you know in your heart the time is right...i think you just know.

mumtwofourkelly
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Posted: 02 May 2008 at 2:00pm \| IP Logged

I had a 3yr age gap between Macaulay and Jake a 20mth age gap between Jake and Tabitha and then a 3yr age gap between Tabitha and Caitlyn. I just went with how i felt . When i felt the time was right to have more children i did . I was very lucky as i got pregnant first try with three of my kids . Jake took a little longer awww.

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Rockies88
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Posted: 08 May 2008 at 9:46pm \| IP Logged

I do agree noone but you can tell when the time is right. I had my first son and didnt know I was suppoed to wait after having him. he was 1 month old when I got pregnant again. It was risky but everything was fine. I love having these two so close to age. My son is now 5 and my daughter 4. I love it they are like having twins. now with this one Im afraid of the age difference that maybe my older ones wont want as much to do with this baby in say 4 or 5 years. So im a firm beliver in having them close. just remember it does pose a challenge having them so close some times lol.

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Posted: 11 June 2008 at 7:32pm \| IP Logged

hi ladies, meanwhile as i ponder over the idea of when i was ready, i had a positive pregnancy test last month and ready or not, here baby comes. i ve accepted the challenge of having them only 2 years apart when the baby comes to be due. The last few weeks was a challenge in itself with this toddler making my sickness ever so out of control. We'll hope to stick through it...we have no other choice now.

thanks mums for all your support!

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