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Posted: 14 May 2008 at 3:38pm \| IP Logged

It's all gone horribly wrong. Bex was fine all week-end but Monday she was dishing out the cheek again, let it go silly me eh ? Yesterday she was an utter nightmare so I banned her from the phone and when her mates were ringing her I wouldn't let her have the phone. This led to a lot of utterly disgusting names being fired at me and I asked her to leave if it was going to carry on. She refused and went to slap me. Threatned her with the police if she touched me. More swearing at me so I grabbed her by the arm and tried to put her out the front door. She turned round and grabbed me by the throat and started to squeeze, she then pushed me right across the kitchen still holding me by the throat and slammed me into the wall. I had to pull her hair to get her off me. She then left the house in tears, why I don't know cos it was me getting it.

I have a massive black bruise from my right shoulder down to my shoulder blade, I have marks on my neck and she ripped my left ear lobe as well.

Needless to say, she is now banned from the house. Yes I did call the police but they just gave her another warning for it !

Sophie and Adam witnessed it all as well.

What on earth happened to my loving wee girl that was so lovely until she got to 12 ?

Edited by 19731hazy on 14 May 2008 at 3:40pm

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Posted: 14 May 2008 at 3:56pm \| IP Logged

Aw hunny!! How awful!! Please don't blame yourself! Some kids just go well off the rails through no one's fault! I'm soryy the lo's witnessed it. I don't know what else to say really, my lo is only 3. Just wanted to say something in support xxxx

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Posted: 14 May 2008 at 4:17pm \| IP Logged

Aww hunny, Im so sorry to hear this - you have given her more than enough chances - and Ive got two words - Boot Camp!

Massive gentle hugs for you hunny, and if you havent thought of it already, social services should help you out or at least point you in the right direction.

We are all here for you hunny, you know where we are xxxxxx

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Posted: 14 May 2008 at 5:08pm \| IP Logged

Oh Hazy. I really don't know what to say - but my heart goes out to you. My Becca is almost 14, and I'd be devastated if I had to deal with what you are at the moment.

I have to say - you have given her so many chances. There comes a time when you have to step back and put some space between you - and between her and your other lo's. What an awful thing for them to witness too. I hope the physical pain is better soon - sending you a big gentle hug - and as Nikki said, you know where we are.

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Posted: 14 May 2008 at 5:13pm \| IP Logged

Thanks all, xx.

This time I'm feeling no guilt what so ever. She is round at her mates and I've texted her telling her to go to the council and tell them she is homeless. Once she has somewhere to stay, Andy will drop her clothes round for her. I can only hope and pray that she gets some help for her outrageous temper soon.

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