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Posted: 16 May 2008 at 10:41pm | IP Logged
Lynie forgot to mention there, that she is now a wonderful Mummy to 4 children too, and 2 of those lo's are tiny twins lolololol So it can be done, feeling can change and im sure you will be just as great once things settle down a bit more. x-x-x
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Posted: 17 May 2008 at 12:19am | IP Logged
aww bless ya hun, first welcome to the site enjoy it as im sure you will, no one here will judge you its each to there own, partly the way you are thinking right now is shock i have a friend whos 42 never been into kids at all and has just give birth to a baby girl - shes a natual and has took to it like a duck to water, im sure you will be fine wants its sank in - were all here for any kind of advice, by the way im julie mum to 2 molly (3) and jessie (15 weeks) hope to chat soon xx jue xx
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Posted: 17 May 2008 at 9:24am | IP Logged
You lot are so nice ! And Lynie, you have described me down to a tee, you really have.
I'm going out with friends this afternoon for drinks so i'll be using the old antibiotics line with them, although 2 of them know and i was all set to go to a music festival in 3 weeks time but i'm going to give it a miss. I'm not sure i could rough it and stay sober at the same time
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Posted: 22 May 2008 at 6:32pm | IP Logged
A belated 'hello!' I'm Helen, mum to Ben whose 3 1/2. We live in Rutland with dh Dean.
Like you and a few others I was devastated when I found out I was pg. We were told that it would be difficult for me to have babies due to undergoing chemo at 13, so we brought forward our wedding by a year and decided that we may as well start trying for a baby if it was going to be a long drawn out process. However I fell pg first time!! I was gutted, so not ready, busy planning my wedding and a bit embarassed that I'd be a pg bride! Didn't want people thinking we were only getting married because of the baby. The first few nonths of pg were tough. I felt really sick all the time and resented feeling that way when I didn't even want to be pg! But as soon as I saw my baby at the first scan, everything suddenly fell into place! I feel really guilty now looking back that I didn't want my wonderful little boy!
I'm sure once you get used to being pg, that all the maternal stuff will come flooding in. Don't worry about being clueless when it comes to babies, most of us have been there, and are kids are ok!! Theres always plenty of people on here (as I'm sure you've noticed) with a huge variety of different experiences, and we're all here to help x
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Topic: Hi, just found out i'm pregnant !
