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Posted: 30 September 2005 at 9:27pm | IP Logged

Lily i cant say anything that hasnt already been said, but BIG HUGS and if you ever need to chat you are welcome to pm me, i know how you feel and maybe it would do us both good to share it.

Take care you arent alone and dont ever forget that.

Posted: 30 September 2005 at 9:51pm | IP Logged

awwww lily sorry 2 hear u've been feeling so down. defo talk 2 ur doc or hv and remember we're all here 4 u as well. if u feel like a moan this is the place 2 do it.

hope u get it sorted soon.

BIG HUGS commin ur way

Posted: 01 October 2005 at 7:21pm | IP Logged

HOW ARE YOU TODAY LILY?

THINKING OF YOU

HUGS X

Posted: 01 October 2005 at 7:45pm | IP Logged

lily, sorry not had chance to post on this yet but just wanted to say that you mustn't apologise for moaning on here - that's what we're here for so moan away... I certainly do my fair share of moaning!

 like everyone else has said, you've taken the first big step by admitting you're feeling like this and hopefuuly you feel a bit better for getting it off your chest...

I do hope you feel better soon and I also wanted to say that I think it's amazing you managed to make your DH's tea at all with 5 kids and you should have tipped it over his head for not eating it

Posted: 01 October 2005 at 7:51pm | IP Logged

tellhim hes lucky he gets tea made he couldve married someone like me who cooks once a blue moon

and that was before lily!

dh says my cooking is grim-he feels safer making his own-he knows whats gone in it!

Posted: 01 October 2005 at 8:10pm | IP Logged

yes but im not sharing it with you its a family heirloom

if it cheers lily up ill share it with her! 

Posted: 01 October 2005 at 8:15pm | IP Logged

yes definately

itd make me rich very rich if i shared it!

Posted: 02 October 2005 at 8:38am | IP Logged

Hi Hon. I don't come on here very often as you know so didn't know you were going through a tough time. Why didn't you email me or MSN (still have you as Lavenderfields?) I would've called or mailed you! still will I'm always here. I kind of know how you feel as I had PND with all 3 of mine so know where you're coming from but it sounds as if you need to speak to someone. I didnt get on with the counsellor at my docs either and in the end I went back and said I didnt get on with her and asked to be referred to someone else which they did and she was really lovely and in my opinion far better at her job. Just because you have a lovely home and car hon doesnt mean you should automatically be hapy -it doesnt work like that. THings like emotions and life get in the way! You know I've suffered depression because we've talked about it before and you've been there for me when I've been sobbing and eveything has been going tits up so let me return the favour! You know where I am anytime and I really hope things get better soon. I'm sure they will, you've taken the 1st step by admitting how you feel. Big hugs hon xxxxxxxx