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Posted: 24 June 2008 at 6:44pm | IP Logged Quote becky84

Hi all ,
      Now firstly i want to say i feel quite silly that i havent posted here before as if i had today wouldnt have happened , anyway i got STILL no af and still a bfn so i got all upset about my cycle being screwed up got stressed with dh for not standing up for me in april or shouting at the hospital ect (deep down i knew that wont help but ...)  so we gets 10 mins from home and im sat there in the car with tears streaming down my face so then dh pulls into tesco carpark gets out starts making calls yep to work saying we aint going in ..... . Bless him he then gets back in the car tells me he loves me and just drives we get to a lovely place and felt free it has been a lovely day just a shame it started the way it did but we have talked and i know he loves me always will the same as me to him but we know that we need to make a choice if we dont help next time as its ripping me apart .

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Posted: 24 June 2008 at 7:27pm | IP Logged Quote zanynut

Awww becky hun where to start.....

Your dh sounds like a true gem.... He obviously holds you close and very dear to his heart. It brings tears to my eyes knowing how good he's being to you.

As for you misses please don't be sorry for not posting sooner, it's amazing how we try to find ways to keep plodding along till we snap and loose it.

You have been facing a huge battle the last 2 years and as i've gotten to know you, you've become a lady of courage, determination and a true person whom i look upto. You should be proud of how far you've come the last year, with the weight loss etc. Yes they keep saying you have to loose more weight, but it'll happen.... i believe in you.

Yes kids would be lovely but you have each other and a true happiness that some never find. One day you will hopefully be blessed and i do really hope it's one day soon but i know it feels like time is flying by but going so slow for things too happen.

I suggest going to see your gp hunny..... and possibly seeking councelling.... but i think your doing great.... keep plodding hun and you're allowed to have your down days.... your human and it's good to know.

Huge hugs babes and you know where i am if you want to talk etc.

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Posted: 24 June 2008 at 7:55pm | IP Logged Quote becky84

OMG now you set me off again (doesnt help that im in pain with bug again either) yes i am lucky to have him he does love me and care for me a hell of a lot .not sure what else to add to your post as i hurt far to much right now x
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Posted: 24 June 2008 at 8:54pm | IP Logged Quote zanynut

Awww hunny i didn't mean to make you tear up, (big hugs) you have done so well and faced so much and yet you are both as strong as houses.

As heartbreaking as it may be to think about or even consider cutting your losses etc at least you know your man will stand by you and still want to be with you.... he obviously is one of the few men that fall in love with their hearts and heads.

I hope the bug leaves you alone soon you deserve some peace and some painfree time... hope your feeling better soon babes. X

But please know you are loved by many and no one thinks any less of you (and wanting dp/dh to stand up and fight your corner is a dream many of us have...) XX

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