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Posted: 16 July 2008 at 12:09am | IP Logged

aww bless he must be in so much pain,

i really feel for both of u coz when i got sterilised i felt exactly the same as you do now knowing that i wont be able to have more babies,

hope your hubby feels better soon.

Posted: 16 July 2008 at 8:14am | IP Logged

Awwww hunny it must have been a hard decision to reach and face but it's nice that you've done it together.

Hope he's not in too much pain and at least it's all sorted and you know what the future will hold. At least your young lad will be pleased that mummy's not having any more due to space in the car etc!

Hugs to you both hunny x

Posted: 16 July 2008 at 11:14am | IP Logged

Can see how you'd be feeling like that. We've discussed dh having the snip after Adam is born - but I keep thinking it seems so final! lol We've both said that 4 is quite enough - and I know we're lucky and some people would be grateful to have one - but part of me just doesn't feel 'finished', if that makes sense?

Hehe - though, ask me in a few weeks when I've got a screaming newborn and I'm sure I'll be quite happy to discuss it again! lol

How's hubby feeling Lynie? My dh has been fed horror stories at work, so not very keen! Be good to be able to tell him about a 'positive' experience!

xxx

Posted: 16 July 2008 at 8:31pm | IP Logged

Angelica i couldnt have said this better myself 

" We've both said that 4 is quite enough - and I know we're lucky and some people would be grateful to have one - but part of me just doesn't feel 'finished', if that makes sense?"

Its exactly how dh and I feel, we have been discussing this for years well since Esme was born and shes now 3 but it is such a final thing the thought of not been able to have anymore would drive me crazy but also the thought of having more also drives me crazy  lol but we have 4 gorgeous babes and are very blessed