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Posted: 10 October 2008 at 2:44pm | IP Logged

Hunny it's only natural to worry when things start getting good again.... just take it day by day..... just remeber how far you've come hunny.

If things do happen remember you can control somethings in your life like being a non smoker and try and concentrate on those things. The rest will or will not happen and it's not worth trying to worry about the what if's if you can help it.

Good luck not much use i know but try to believe in youself hunny

Posted: 10 October 2008 at 2:58pm | IP Logged

Hi Strawberry,

I am new to the site but I think I know how you feel, I've had a horrible few years, I lost my dad to cancer in January and I have had a lot of problems getting the right support for my autistic son. I could go on but won't!

I try to think things through and after watching the sheer bravery of my dad and son I can't justify feeling down about anything. It may seem easy for me to say but there are so many people who are going to hell and back and their lives are definately much harder than mine.

Take each day as it comes! Its the best advice given to me by my dad and I do my best to do this, he never gave up fighting!

gothschild x

Posted: 10 October 2008 at 4:24pm | IP Logged

Jen,
It is always sensible to keep just that little bit of guard up, as everything that could go wrong, sometimes does.. but i see no reason why you shouldn't start enjoying your life, as you've worked so damn hard to get where you are today in so many aspects!

It's really lovely to see you so positive and loving life, rather than trying to just get on with things until something else comes around the corner.

Be happy hun, you and your gorgeous children deserve to be.
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