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Posted: 22 August 2009 at 12:33am | IP Logged

hi im new to a lot of this

i miscarried aug 4th it was a big shock 2 me but at1st i was very upset but i seemed to then be ok

the lst week all iv wanted to do is cry. i feel my partner has got ova it and although supported me feel hes fed up of seeing m cry as now just leaves me to it

is it normal to still be greavin 4 this baby as i was 12 weeks i just dont feel like getting out of bed in a morning i cant stio thinking about bein pregnant and still wanting it to happen so much

my partner is also saying he dosent want intercourse with me although i have some times felt ready he just sits all nite playing his computer

Posted: 01 December 2009 at 1:27pm | IP Logged

Hey

Sorry for your loss, i know how you feel I had a missed miscarrige in July and have never been so heartbroken, i never thought you could actually feel your heart break until then. Me and Ellie's (have a feeling I was having a girl) dad weren't together at the time but he tried his best to support me but like you I felt that he got over it before I did and got fed up with me getting upset.

I lost my baby a lot earlier than you did (5 weeks), although I didn't know I had lost her till i was 10 weeks. It was devastating to think that the baby I was carrying had been dead inside me for 5 weeks without me knowing. I felt like I had failed her as I should have protected her.

Next month is going to be an especially hard time as she would have been born towards the end of December. Its 5 and a bit months later and I think about her every single day and can't bare to say goodbye to her. My heart breaks every time i think of her and everything that I will miss.