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I voted emergancy C- section....Laila Grace just didn't want to come out....we were stuck at 9cms for over 2 hours. I was tired and laila Grace was in distress. I felt a right failure aferwards but nearly 2 years on I know it was the best thing for all of us. At least when she's a teenage and shouts " you can't be my mum" (as they do at that age...so I'm told) I can answer back " well I am...I've the scar to prove it !"
We're pregnant again, only 9 weeks (everything crossed) but I would really like to try it natural this time but if the same happens again and we need to have a c- section for the right reasons, then so be it. I would rather be left with a bigger scar and holding my baby than any other result.
I feel no shame in having had a c-section, it was what was needed at the time.
Canarymummy, Laila Grace & Jelly Bean
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