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Posted: 31 January 2007 at 8:20pm \| IP Logged

Thanks MumSam - There is a lass at work who is 30 weeks pregnant and she does nothing but moan and I found out when I had the mmc that hubbys daughter is also due in August, the date I should have been :(

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Posted: 31 January 2007 at 9:22pm \| IP Logged

I try not to think about the date I was due now or how many weeks I would have been I only upset myself. I know how tough it is and nothing I can say will make it feel any better. Seeing other people pregnant does hurt, hearing of someone you know getting pregnant, hearing the date you were due all hurts.

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Posted: 31 January 2007 at 9:32pm \| IP Logged

I feel really sorry for both of you! Luckily I've never been in your situation. I could easily have been though. My mum went through loads of miscarriages and a still birth (a 'big sis' whose grave we still visit) before she had me and my twin sis. And I had chemo when I was 13 and was told just before I caught with Ben that i might never concieve naturally and would probably need donor eggs. Before I fell pg with Ben I was really resentful of all those teenage mums who have loads of babies with loads of different blokes! I hope you both have luck with ttc and you know there's always us mm for those times you feel down. Thinking of you both xxx

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Posted: 31 January 2007 at 10:29pm \| IP Logged

When you're TTC, it does seem as though there are pregnant women everywhere, and it is horribly frustrating. It's incredibly difficult, and I know there's nothing I can say that will make it any easier.

Becky, It was plain cruel of that lady to have a go at you for getting pg again soon after your last mc, she had no way of knowing that the same would happen again, and you are not to blame. Every body is different, and every pregnancy is different. You're doing nothing wrong, it's just appalling bad luck, and I'm not surprised that you feel so annoyed. You have undergone a couple of losses after all, and like I said, she was completely out of line to try and fault you for it. Maybe you should give yourself a cycle 'off' just to put your mind at rest that you've done it, if you know what I mean. Hang in there, you have one beautiful child, and I'm sure another will come along in time.

Hugs. Rachel x

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Posted: 01 February 2007 at 9:32am \| IP Logged

Hi, thanks all. I feel a bit better this morning. I have spoken to the "woman" concerned and she has apologised for all she has said, too little too late in my eyes but anyhoo.

I guess it is just a case of waiting for AF to arrive now and then try again next month. I usually get irritable before my AF, but then again I know I OVd on 28 January. So I dunno lol!

Hope you catch real soon MumSam. Next month will be my 12th month of TTC since DD was 5ish months old!!!

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