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Posted: 20 January 2007 at 9:19pm | IP Logged

I admire people who can go into these places, I would be terrified!

My mate Rosie (who is frightened of nothing) bought some bits and bobs from Ann Summers and said that it is all just a job to the people that work there (no pun intended...) and they can discuss vibrators like they were discussing double glazing.

She also said she got a little mini skirt thing and some tassels, and the assistant asked her if she wanted some stockings to complete the outfit.

Outfit? Since when is tassels and a belt an outfit? I guess I'm just an old prude! Certainly that's what Rosie tells me. I think she only tells me these stories to watch me go red!

Posted: 20 January 2007 at 9:27pm | IP Logged

pmsl 3 small

rosie sounds quite terrifying

doesnt someone on here do anne summers partays?

Posted: 20 January 2007 at 9:57pm | IP Logged

Tried to get DP's POV!  hahah  He said obviously you want womens comments...

Urrm, can't say I've ever tried dress up or toys.  I'd be horrified to go to the shops.  I wouldn't mind shopping on line annonomously.

What about massage?  Tieing up with scarfs, blindfold and using different materials, silk, lace, etc to tantalise the body?

Good luck!  I always find basques really sexy!  I have 2 but want one with suspender things attached.

Posted: 20 January 2007 at 10:13pm | IP Logged

What a fun topic. LOL from a big belly pg soon to be mum..anyways, i had much to fix in this dept as well. first off, start with what u are comfy in and turns u on first. then pick out something to add on top that would make the partner flip (woohoo). For example, i feel sexy in a see through nighty (which i would never fit..tried to fit but nolonger) and add undies that i know my partner only prefers...thongs or gee strings. Depending on the male..booby guy or booty guy?? then, depending on what you think is sexy..get into different things like movies, games or just one on one time...mix some fruits and creams or foods..i always love. candles makes it for me.

Make sure you hit all your spots and his..then it should be a sure success!! Ps..take it slow, when i rush or think too much, i get anxious and can lose the mood...my problem. Relax.

Ohhhh...how fun, i miss it so much..cant wait a couple of months! Heheh

Posted: 20 January 2007 at 10:18pm | IP Logged

I have to say don't think I could walk into a back street type shop, I do make Hayely come into Ann Summers with me when I take her shopping just to embaress her.  What about some silk scarfs or fluffy handcuffs....  A lot of things I think depend on your relationship and how much you trust each other to do things.  I always end up laughing too much when I have tried dressing up.  There are some good books about that can help in the bedroom department and sometimes it is fun to read them together if your partner will do something like that.

I must ask though what are you meant to do with the whipped cream and fruit and isn't it a bit messy.  Always put me off using stuff like that cos of the mess lol.

Posted: 21 January 2007 at 9:03am | IP Logged

rofl Lynie!!  neither do I lol

god I've not got the energy for half the stuff on here but good on you Star!!  I bet they have loads of kinky stuff on ebay so why not try that...?

my (male) friend used to like his girlfriend to do the cleaning with a mini skirt and no knickers on....sorry but I think my husband would pass out from laughing if I tried this lol

good luck!

Posted: 21 January 2007 at 10:27am | IP Logged

Hehe...lol Sam...You squirt it on then lick it all off.  Same with chocolate sauce etc.  You put it on all the sensitive areas and YES! it gets very messy.  Thats all part of the fun, cause you can take a shower together afterwards and do it all again.

Posted: 21 January 2007 at 2:27pm | IP Logged

wooohooooo right up my street ahem.

Nowt embarress me, but by now you all know that lol.  I finally introduced Joe (only taken me 4 years) into the world of ann summers...bless him, his little ears went v v pink...however he was like a kid at christmas when the rather large box got delivered lol.  It was needless to say the first box to be packed and sealed when we moved..however the lads knew what it was just for where it was lol and were thoroughly amused and itching to find out what was in my box of trix..especially as they were all having a good old nose through my Kama Sutra book and erm various other books lol...i think joes cred at work has gone through the roof after they moved us in lol