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Posted: 13 April 2008 at 10:09pm | IP Logged
I know this site is all about conceiving and making of life and learning how to nurture our little ones, but I would just like to pay tribute to my wonderful Grandmother, who we called Nain (north wales for nan) who died yesterday. She was a lovely lady who spoiled me rotten for the last 37 years and over the last month, I have been able to return the favour. She has been in hospital due to a massive tumour in her lung. I have visited her, taking as many of her favourites things that I could think of, and sat holding her hand for hours, reading her the nicest bits from papers and magazines. I have watched her shrinking away from the rotund Grandma with a pinny on, always with a sweetie in her pocket for me, to a very slight frightened little old lady. It has broken my heart, but I am glad I was with her when she drew her last breath, and joined my Grandfather who left some 9 years since. My ds asked what her last words were to me, I told her that we all loved her and she replied " I love you all too" She will be greatly missed.
If you made it this far Ladies, may I say thank you.
Joined: 18 October 2007 United Kingdom Posts: 93 Gender: Female
Posted: 13 April 2008 at 10:30pm | IP Logged
I'm so sorry. She sounds like a lovely lady and a wonderful, much
loved grandmother.I'm glad you had the opportunity to be with her to
the end - you will never have any regrets. I wish you strength for the
next few difficult days.
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Posted: 13 April 2008 at 10:43pm | IP Logged
Madmoo I am so glad you were able to spend the last months with your Nain and what a lovely tribute to her you have written. I am so sorry for your loss, may she rest in peace knowing how much she was loved.
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Posted: 13 April 2008 at 10:55pm | IP Logged
Helloo - really sorry to hear about your Nain - its sad when we lose someone so close - she will be at peace now with knowing how much she was loved - take care chick xx
Joined: 11 September 2007 United Kingdom Posts: 2930 Gender: Female
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:04am | IP Logged
Awww big hugs hun.....
You've paid a lovely tribuite to your Nain here hun, you have me in tears!
Try not to think of her gone but like you said re-united with your grandad and treasure the memories she gave you and all she taught you as she was a special gift on lone to you and all your family.
Take care hun and if i can do anything hun give us a bell. x You Nain is proud of you hun you've been there for her and she will always cherrish that....... may your memories comfort you in your times of need x
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Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:20am | IP Logged
thats a lovely message,had me in tears too,im so sorry about your loss,but glad you could be there for your nain....thinking of you and your family,take care xxx
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Posted: 14 April 2008 at 8:45am | IP Logged
Jain hunny, you have been in my thoughts these past few weeks, and I know how much time you have spent at the hospital with her.
What a wonderful tribute to your Nain hunny, and I'm sure she was so glad to have you by her side when she passed over. I know this is no consolation, but she was with her special girl and your grandad would have probably been there to meet her, she went in peace and thats all anyone can ask.
Huge massive hugs for you and the kids hunny, you know where I am, and I will be checking!!!!!
Joined: 24 April 2007 United Kingdom Posts: 1932 Gender: Female
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 9:33am | IP Logged
So sorry to hear of your loss Jain. Thinking of you and your family. This is a difficult time - cherish your precious memories and take comfort that she will be with your grandad.
Joined: 19 April 2006 United Kingdom Posts: 538 Gender: Female
Posted: 14 April 2008 at 9:56am | IP Logged
What a lovely tribute to your nain, im so sorry for your loss but im sure she is still around you watching over you and will help ease your pain xxx RIP Nain
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