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Posted: 21 April 2006 at 6:34pm | IP Logged

i know this should be a very happy day for anyone getting married but im well gutted,

my dad has married a woman who well was o.k at 1st but now i cant bear her, my mum died suddenly 6 years ago at the age of 40, yes very young and young too for my dad to loose his wife, i knew he one day would find someone else and would proberly marry again,

my big grudge with her is that shes has 3 children who my dad has taken on (fair-play to him), but she wont take on my dads not so much me and my other 2 sisters as we are all settled and moved on but our young brother basically hasnt had security since mum died he was 14, he is now living with me dh & molly & to be fair its been o.k but now we want our own space back, ive tried telling my dad but hes said his WIFE wont allow my bro to move in with them even though hes buying her house and said that hes old enough to fend for himself, take into account her eldest son is the same age and still lives with them!!

ohhh i dont wanna go on but i needed to get abit off my chest dh has just taken molly to the afterdoo for a hour so my dad can see her, but im here just feeling low, none of my sisters went too the wedding either as we all feel the same. sorry to go on,

jue xx

Posted: 21 April 2006 at 6:40pm | IP Logged

i know the situation jules! and i honestly can say its a big shock he has got married to her!

wish there was more i could say to help you feel better, and i think you should try talking to ur dad, as it isnt fair on you and carl or on little geoff!

i cant see her problem with little geoff coz its not like hes a trouble maker, so he wouldnt bring trouble to her door or anything!

cant really say much else jules, except heres a big hug ((((((HUG)))))) and i hope u feel better soon.

Tilly xxx

Posted: 21 April 2006 at 6:57pm | IP Logged

cheers both for replies we all have tried loads to talk to my dad but he just makes up excuses by saying "i was married at geoffs age, he need grow up and fend for himself" i know deep down my dads hurting as we were such a close family, but hes trying to keep his other half happy, she should except his family like he has hers.

xxjuexx

Posted: 21 April 2006 at 8:24pm | IP Logged

oh this sounds like a tricky situation

how old is your brother now?

Posted: 21 April 2006 at 9:55pm | IP Logged

my brother now is 20, but quite immature, (bless)