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Posted: 22 August 2007 at 9:07pm | IP Logged

well ladies,

                   i wanted to inform you all that my next app with GP is wed at 9:30 dh told them it was 4 urgent test results so i could get a slot with the right gp on the right day bless him.

So we will go and see what they say.

also please dont shout but we decided to tell our families we could not have children (so they dont continue to ask when as we dont know how long this process could take) we decided this was the best decision for us and said any baby that may come along will be a miracle (we are not really lying ) this way it puts them in the picture without them telling  us oh of course it will happen

thanks 4 your support x

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 9:14pm | IP Logged

Aw Becky - no-one would shout at you, sweetie. I haven't been through this myself, but can totally understand why you and dh have done that - can see it would take a wee bit of pressure off you both from outside, and you can deal with things yourselves.

I hope you are ok. Very best of luck with your appointment - I hope you can get some answers as to what options you have.xxx

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 9:51pm | IP Logged

thank you for such kind words

 mil tried to keep it together but as we were going to leave she burst into tears resulting in tears from me too when i told my mum she kinda just said oh ok (i think it was shock it was said over the fone as she wasnt at home) my nan and grandad were kinda like oh erm we are sorry these things are just not meant to be sometimes and then told me about others who couldnt have kids bless them dont think they new what to say .

Posted: 22 August 2007 at 9:59pm | IP Logged

I think I would have done the same thing, in the long run it avoids a lot of embarrasing and hurtful questions.

my prayers are with you and your dh.

Good luck with your appointment and keep us posted.