| Posted: 30 October 2007 at 9:04am | IP Logged
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Hun in my personal opinion....
You need to realise that you are not stupid and it's nothing that you have done, it takes 2 to tango!
Unfortunatley most of us only use the sticks we wee on so are unsure of when a blood test can be done but i think it's from when your af would be due.... I suggest you ring your doctors surgery and ask to speak to a nurse and ask the question of blood tests etc as they should be able to answer them. (write a list down on paper so you don't forget them once talking)
As for moving on it can be done but if i was you have some you time give yourself some tlc wait a mth or 2 till you've got your head sorted out, your friend can still be around supporting you etc but take things slowly.
I know that if we all sat here and really thought about the pregnancy symptoms most of us would have a couple of them so it's not a definate indicator. Wait till a test is done you know you have good friends who will support you regardless of the outcome....
focus on you and little christopher and try to keep going you can't let yourself be driven into a crazy frenzy by this, waiting is always the worst part of anything but you need to keep yourself busy and focus on other things (ie lo).
Sorry if this sounds harsh. Good luck hun, call your gp and take each day at a time
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