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Posted: 29 October 2007 at 4:53am | IP Logged

well you know im waiting to see if im pregnant.....well bf and i broke up cause he was searching a dating site i thought he was just looking for email freinds and he was telling them he was single right in front of me and now he started talking to thins girl today and shes already moving in to his place tomorrow! he says its cause i dont give him a bj....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

is there anyway if i ovlated on the 22ed that a blood test would show if i am or not!? ill keep the baby but i really wanna now know not to keep him or anything but now i wanna know more then ever

Posted: 29 October 2007 at 8:17am | IP Logged

I am very sorry that you are going through this, when you are meant to be so happy, now it is time to concentrate on yourself and find out if your pg or not, if you are then you need to put all the time and care into yourself and not be stressing if he is faithful or not, and to move someone esle in because he can't get what he wants is a sure way to see how selfish he is being, wait until a baby gets here and see how selfish he would become then, i don't think so. 

Good luck in what ever you decide, but make it YOUR choice.

Posted: 29 October 2007 at 9:02am | IP Logged

Hun this is a difficult one, and this is my own personal opinion.

I think he's acted very selfishly by not talking to you about his problems uphand i think he's using bj's as an excuse to make you feel guilty when you're not the guilty one as he's not been communicating, trying to shift the blame.... He's being selfish and a coward and i don't think you should blame yourself or consider this for a second. It's his loss hun, you are a wonderful person....

As mum2willNkimi said you need to focus on yourself and give yourself some tlc. I don't think it's possible to test too early i know clear blue etc do tests that can be taken in urine as early as 4-5 days before af is due... but otherwise i think it's still a waiting game.... maybe calling your gp surgery and by asking to talk to the practice nurse she might be able to tell you if it's possible or not.

This definantly sucks hun but it might be for the best and i know it's not much comfort but at least you've found out what he's like now....   Don't go rushing into anything, take each day at a time and enjoy having control of the remote control etc.

Good luck hun i'm sorry i can't help much but only you can make the final decision and i wish you well. Sending you big hugs to help you at this difficult time...

Posted: 29 October 2007 at 3:37pm | IP Logged

You poor soul.

I think you would be better off by yourself right now whether you are pregnant or not. He sounds like an idiot who dosen't know a good thing when he's got it.

Posted: 01 November 2007 at 9:14am | IP Logged

BABE WHAT A ******

Have to agree with everyone else about the testing.

Posted: 01 November 2007 at 9:53am | IP Logged

mommiesbabe.... haven't heard anything from you for a couple of days are you ok??

Please let us know your ok, we all care about you and are wondering how things are now.