Joined: 21 May 2008 United Kingdom Posts: 11 Gender: Female
Posted: 22 May 2008 at 8:07pm | IP Logged
im only 11 + 3 and bored already, i picked up a baby magazine and flicked through and put it down, fed up with baby stuff on ebay and dont want to talk about it with friends anymore, why do i feel like this?
Joined: 11 January 2008 United Kingdom Posts: 585 Gender: Female
Posted: 22 May 2008 at 8:47pm | IP Logged
Blimey hun!! You havent been preg 2 minutes! Perhaps you are just having an emotional day? What does matt think? Can you talk to him? Maybe express any fears, concerns etc that may b making you feel like you dont want to deal with being pregnant??
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Posted: 22 May 2008 at 9:19pm | IP Logged
I'd probably say its hormone related tbh. 40 weeks can feel like a life time carring a lo, but it will be here sooner than you realise hun, so just take your time with things.. carry on as normal as possible because there's no rush for anything to change just yet.. just try to relax and chill out a little.
The surge of excitement from finding out your pregnant may have worn off a bit, and now it just feels like the 'nothing much is happening' stage now lol I hope you start feeling a bit more upbeat about everything soon. Hugs x-x-x
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 7:46am | IP Logged
i think maybe some of it is the excitement of finding out has worn off, but also i do have this big fear of the downs sydrome test looming over me which is really putting a dampner on things, my mil is beign a * at the moment and homones are runnning riots
Matt is an angel and is there all the way, he is good if im in a mood and takes it all in his stride so couldnt ask for anymore from him.
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 11:03am | IP Logged
Aww hun i'm glad that Matt is there for you, as for mil.... well it seems to be a trend that many member will beable to appreciate and help you survive.
I think you and the others are right it's lovely at first window shopping.... etc but it seems ages to go and so much has to happen inbetween. Try not to worry about the downs syndrome test i know it's easier said than done.
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 12:02pm | IP Logged
when I saw this title I wondered who it could be! lol I was like this with my last 2, and the more pg was mentioned, the worse I felt, it is perfectly normal, you will also find that once the baby is bigger and kicking, it could well just kick start you into enjoying it again. I found it hard with my first as all I ever heard was you can't do this you can't do that, so that didn't help either. I would put it down to your hormones, mine played merry hell with me all the way through!
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 1:48pm | IP Logged
Sometimes you need to count your blessings. Yes pregnancy can be hard on your emotions and your body, but there are plenty of things that can be worse.
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Posted: 23 May 2008 at 9:33pm | IP Logged
I hope your feeling a little better today? I just wanted to say, i understand and agree with what MumSam is saying.. there are many people on here that would give their right arm to be in your position, ladies that are ttc, have miscarried and even had still born angels.. I'm not trying to blame you at all for feeling the way you do at all hun, like i've said before, all your hormones racing around and all that.. I only wanted to send you some positive thoughts and hugs. x-x-x
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