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Posted: 04 August 2007 at 7:51pm | IP Logged

I'm crazy about my chap I can't get enough of him.

The thing is we enjoy , but sometimes I feel like I want  again and again and again.  In fact, I'm insatiable to the point where he is sweating buckets and begging me to leave him alone-lololololo.

We laugh about it, and I am happy with our life, but I wonder if this is normal for a 30 year old woman who previously loathed sex with her husband, but now can't get enough even though she works fulltime, has two children to raise and is always knackered but finds the energy for some 'loooooooovin'!?

Is it something to do with the flirty thirites or finding a man I really fancy and want to be intimate with?  Or am I just a freak of nature?

The other thing I want to know from all you walking oracles is how can I slow down my drive to match my partners and how can I speed him up to match mine?

Posted: 04 August 2007 at 7:58pm | IP Logged

Hey

I would love to say freak of nature, but I was exactly the same when i met Simon..

I had lost all interest in  with my ex.. and when i met Simon my labido went sky high again.

I just think its summin to do with the fresh start and a fresh  life... u know, learning what they like, don't like.. etc..

As for the keeping up/slowing down bit.. a cold shower??? pmsl..

Posted: 05 August 2007 at 4:55am | IP Logged

I was and am still the same with my husband. Before I met my husband 10 years ago... I never really enjoyed but I am  similar to you

I think it has something with you feeling comfortable with in yourself...and possibly he may be more accepting of you,  than your ex was.

I say just enjoy all the fun.

PS Maybe a thought...just mention you huge appetite forto your ex husband!

Posted: 05 August 2007 at 9:30am | IP Logged

I sometimes feel like you wanting it over & over again with my hubby  but other times i dont once is enough i put it down to pressure of ttc when i think it may have happened ie after ov or before ov i want him heaps but backwards whem you look at it lol

you should enjoy it hun why not get as much as you can lol

as for speeding him theres always viagra lol (sorry)

Posted: 05 August 2007 at 12:22pm | IP Logged

    You are in love. Enjoy it !!!

Posted: 05 August 2007 at 1:55pm | IP Logged

Well erm as I am single I cant comment lol but if you are both happy then buy a rabbit to keep you topped up while he gets his breath back lol If there isnt really a problem to fix, dont try.

So glad you have found happiness babe! This increase in (pmsl) drive is probably due to your new found confidence and happiness. Not to mention bagging a gorgeous hunk, and settling down firmly on your feet where you are happy, settled and doing great!

Posted: 05 August 2007 at 8:55pm | IP Logged

When I first got with dh we were like rabbits! I think 12 times in 24 hrs was our record lol! Now, sometimes its like that and sometimes not so much. I put it down to being settled, oh and having an insomniac for a son lol!

i'd just go with the flow! like others have said its perfectly normal when you find a great guy to want to get physical with him often. Try finding out what gets him going and using it to your advantage!

Have fun, and enjoy it while it lasts!! (not that I hink it won't, just every day stuff can get in the way of a rampant sexlife lol)

Posted: 06 August 2007 at 10:05am | IP Logged

Chica enjoy it babes lol.  If you think back long before iiiijit was on the scene you were a rampant rabbit way back when lol...just iiiijit head was a plank.

Go with the flow..but dont wear the poor bloke out lol...there is always viagra for him to keep up with you lol....get him to go to the med centre...dare you lol.  Gawd hes going to lamp me one for that one.

Enjoy it bird...end of

Posted: 06 August 2007 at 11:05am | IP Logged

id say just go with it,im sure your fella will be fine,lol

me and sean had sex a few times a week most weeks but i never really enjoyed it,it was okay,he always initiated it and i was never totaly turned on so to speak,till we got going.....i put it down to our relationship being crap,now im facing single life i can think about blokes and getting frisky and haviong some fun and it really gets me going,i can imagine finding a really sexy bloke and shagging all day long!! hahaha

enjoy it while it lasts hun!!! xxx

Posted: 06 August 2007 at 11:10am | IP Logged

Me and Andy couldn't get enough nookie in our first 12 months of being together, then it went off the boil as I had a lot of pressures with my Gran dying and then getting pregnant.

We have only recently started to get back to normal eg a couple of times a week and I must admit, I do want "it" more than him sometimes, but he can usually be persuaded !!