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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 11:01am \| IP Logged

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I'm getting really low about not being able to put out in the bedroom at the moment and it doesn't help that dp is horney as, well he's trying at every oppotunity to get a chance to try it.....

But my hips are so sore i just feel like i'm letting him down and not being fair, he says he doesn't mind but this morning he was cuddling upto me asking and going oh babes, etc and when he realised he wasn't going to get any he got dressed and stormed off to work....

I know it's hard for him to see me in pain but before my hips went to pots we were like rabbits every oppotunity possible.....

Sorry for this just needed to get it out before it festers too much.

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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 11:10am \| IP Logged

Aww hun, I feel for you both. I've been there, as still am to a point.

When my hips were at their worst, DH and I would go months and months without sex. It was tough on us but thankfully DH understood, and also came to see that the times I gave in I was much much worse the next day and he felt guilty.

I did sometimes 'relieve' him in other ways as I felt guilty but tbh that wasnt enough for him as then he felt guilty. We discussed it and thankfully it never became an issue for us.

I think you need to talk to him. Remember once you've been treated by Dr M you should be able to do a lot more (behind the scout hut for example!)

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Posted: 01 November 2007 at 5:05pm \| IP Logged

Urgh... i was going to do a roast chik tonight, my fav and comfort food, but he's home at 5 and out again! Men! why does he have to work so much at the moment, it's like he wants to aviod me.....

God i'm really cranky! i can't wait till he's home tonight he's going to get a word or two in his ear.... if i'm able to concentrate enough to say what i'm thinking!

Oh well roast tomorrow and pasta with chicken and white sauce tonight...... quick and easy less prep!

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