Joined: 16 May 2008 United Kingdom Posts: 156 Gender: Female
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 1:24pm | IP Logged
Hi people !
I found out i was pregnant around 8 wks ago and since then , me and my husband havent had sex. He is obviously up for it but i'm not, i honestly cant be bothered.
Up to 12 wks pregnant, i was feeling awful all of the time but now i feel better so i think my husband is expecting some action and i'm not !!!!
Joined: 30 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 6636 Gender: Female
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 1:44pm | IP Logged
This is very normal, some women go compleely off sex when pregnant, some women crave it more. Its probably all to do with hormones babe. Talk with dh and just explain to him that you dont have a high sex drive. Tell him that your body is going through major hormonal and physical changes at the moment, but it doesn't mean you love him any less. You never know you drive may come back at some point throughout your pregnancy. We are all entitled to have off periods hehe I'm not pregnant and I certainly have my fair share hehe
Joined: 30 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 6636 Gender: Female
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 2:07pm | IP Logged
If you want to get in the mood maybe try going back to basics. Petals in the bath, candles, maybe get him to wash you or just sit with you in the bath. Lots of cuddles and effection (hair stroking on the sofa). Soft lighting in the bedroom, new bedding... have fun
Joined: 11 June 2005 United Kingdom Posts: 8521 Gender: Female
Posted: 07 July 2008 at 6:36pm | IP Logged
I found it hardest when I was pg the first time. Dh running round making sure I was fine etc etc, put me off more than it turned me on! lol (I know way tmi for most) However just having the energy for it, was enough sometimes.
Joined: 11 January 2008 United Kingdom Posts: 583 Gender: Female
Posted: 08 July 2008 at 2:20pm | IP Logged
I wasnt interested in sex till bout 4 months preg when my body started t crave it terribly!! The littlest kissin scenes on tv were drivin me 2 the point of distraction lol....however, I had the added extra of my partner of 8 yrs having left me single so no1 to "service me" so 2 speak hehe xx
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Topic: No Sex for 8 weeks, not in the mood
