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Posted: 06 May 2007 at 11:06pm \| IP Logged

I'm sorry in advance for posting this...

I need to let it out, its eating away at me

I posted about my period, a few days later i got my bfp...well 5 actually, and we were shocked but very excited...My due date was 30th dec - my birthday... but a few days after that i started getting some left sided pain, my gp sent me to hospital and i had a scan...It showed a deflated sac, and no baby...They were expecting to see a fetal pole or something, and my hcg levels confirmed that this pregnancy wasn't viable...I was told to wait for a bleed, and it looked imminent.

Well i am bleeding, and it's so final, that's it, gone...Its worse than any period i've ever had, and worse than after having the kids...It hurts a lot more too.

Sorry to have to post this, but i need to put it down...i keep crying about it.

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Posted: 06 May 2007 at 11:55pm \| IP Logged

Sam, I am so, so sorry. That's terrible news. I really don't know what to say, I hope your pain passes soon. Big hugs to you and please please keep us updated on how things are and how you are feeling. We are all here for you,

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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 1:57am \| IP Logged

I know how hard it mustve been for you to post about this chick.

It must be the hardest thing in the world chick, ive never been through it so I cant even imagine but I am thinking about you.

Chin up chick

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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 7:32am \| IP Logged

Sam, I am so sorry for you all. Thinking of you all and sending massive hugs. Take Care Love Nicky xxxxxx

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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 7:47am \| IP Logged

Aww bug don't know wot to say

Hope the pain passes soon & we're all here for u if u need to talk about it

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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 8:11am \| IP Logged

Sammie, first of all, well done for sharing this - I know how hard this has been for you, and sharing it with us is a step in the right direction.

Im sending you huge massive warm hugs, I know its no consolation, but its the only way I know of comforting you!!!

You know I am here for you anytime night or day, just pick up the phone hunny.
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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 8:14am \| IP Logged

Hi sam. Im sorry ive missed this all. i just wanted to send you a big hug and wishing your pains go away and may a rainbow shine over you soon. bless you.

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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 8:18am \| IP Logged

Hi Sam, sorry to hear your baby has gone. Allow yourself time to grieve and be kind to yourself. You have so much going on in your life at the moment that is stressful. For the physical pain try taking some paracetamol or Brufen if you can take them. Sometimes it helps to talk about what has happened to help you get your mind around it all. You may find the bleeding lasts longer than a normal period too. Take care and if you need to chat just shout.

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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 10:46am \| IP Logged

Hey you. Am so very sorry to hear your news.

Just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and sending you massive hugs. There isn't anything that I can say that will make you feel better although I wish there was, just know that we're all thinking of you.

Don't apologise for posting - thats what this site is here for. I've found it really helpful to type it all out about what happened to me, it helps you to process whats happened and then you can start to make some sense of it all. There are no answers sadly but I found that being able to share my feelings is helping me no end.

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Posted: 07 May 2007 at 10:51am \| IP Logged

aww im really sorry to hear this - big hugs sam hun, im thinking of you all at this sad time. its good to let it out babes and if you ever need a chat you know where i am xx jue xx

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