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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 1:20pm \| IP Logged

Were having a lovely day out at the Shin Falls visitor centre yesterday. We were on our way back and the mobile rings.

It was the Inverness police station saying that they had Bex there and had taken her from her boyfriends house following a phone call informing them of an in-appropriate relationship going on.

As far as we knew she was in Tain last night. Andy says not to be mad at her as this will be an end of the relationship but I'm not so sure.

It all kicked off in here. Madam came home and stomped off up to her room slamming the door. I asked her what had been going on and that I was angry and disappointed in her. Told her too that she has lost all my trust and it'll be a damn long time before I believe anything she says again.

Got the usual f off response.

She then started calling Andy the most disgusting names and said she was calling her boyfriend on her mobile to come and get her. Andy grabbed the mobile off her and broke it. She then flew at Andy slapping him and pulling his hair. Adam nearly got knocked over so I stepped in between them and got a slapping as well. She has also bent the arms of my specs. She started calling me names and went for me again kicking me in the legs, so I slapped across the face. Not proud of this one little bit.

She then stormed off out the house, called us calling us more names etc !

This morning :

that's it, I've had enough.

Bex started off on one again this morning calling me a w***e, etc etc and I lost it and threw a glass on the floor. Stupid, stupid yes.

Bex then called me a raving physcho bint and pack a couple of bags and left.

I know that she has gone to Stewart (boyfriend) and we have since found out that he is 21, she is only 15.

Oh yes, before she left I got a nice lil pressie to remember her by. A hard soled shoe slammed into my back which has left a huge mark and is still aching now.

If she is collected by the police again, they can keep her or take her to a care home cos I have had enough. I will not be attacked in my own home by one of my kids.

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 1:36pm \| IP Logged

Hazy I have no idea what to suggest. If you know she is with this lad, can you not contact the police? It wont make anything beter, but by the sounds of it it cant get much worse. At least then she will see you are serious. The police can then give her the riot act. Tell them she has attacked you. If she can see you are not going to take any more bother she may just buck her ideas up.

Its not fair on any of you to suffer that, doesnt matter who by! I know you have tried so many times with her in the past. maybe she just needs one huge reality check.

I dont know what to say but to send some huge hugs and tell you Im thinking of you!

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 1:38pm \| IP Logged

i really dont know what to say hun but i really feel for you.

isent there anyone of the family that could take her for a few days?

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 1:43pm \| IP Logged

None of my family live within 200 miles of me.

I will be calling the police but tbh, I know that she will just run again or make life even worse in the house.

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 1:46pm \| IP Logged

that is a shame.

has she been like this for a long time?

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 1:48pm \| IP Logged

For the last year and it is really getting me down now. I just can't take anymore.

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 1:51pm \| IP Logged

i really dont blame you hun there is only so much that you can take.

hopefully things will improve for you hun.

luv bev xx

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 2:03pm \| IP Logged

I really don't know what to say to you....nor do I have any advice. I am shocked that she would have such a huge disrespect for her parents. I haven't been on the site for months and even back then she was causing you a huge amount of hassel.

I hope she see's the light and makes a U-turn and becomes a well behaved teen.

If I carried on like that when I was 15 I would have been forked out on my ass.

I think you are dead right tho, you should not be treated like that by any one in your onw home.

would you consider boarding school ?

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 4:44pm \| IP Logged

Every time I read about the problems you are having all I can think of is report her to the police. She will go from bad to worse, and you can also get the boyfriend done for sex with a minor. It may not endear you to her, but it seems the logical way to progress. I know it seems harsh but one of these days it's not going to be just a routine bash which you can deal with, if her temper flares up even worse than it has, it could end up fatal, and how would you live with yourself if that happened.

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Posted: 02 April 2007 at 4:56pm \| IP Logged

i woukld report her to the police because thats not fair on any of you. can u not speak to a proffesional about what can be done xxx

goodluck with it all

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